Leaders and Educators of The Collective

Goddess Bia is a force of nature, a Female Supremacist and real sensual sadist, who has spent decades crafting and honing her power. Channeling her magic within the kink community, she is the head Domme at The Collective, where she reigns over FemDomme events and leads the FemDom Mentee Program with unwavering authority. She specializes in training her pets and slaves, delighting in the dynamic where alpha men and women bow at her feet, knowing their place beneath her. Currently, she is only accepting tributing slaves and is not open to lifestyle subs.

Her leadership is strict yet deeply intentional, driven by a passion for empowerment, mental health, and the art of impact play. Goddess Bia’s presence weaves a powerful spell throughout The Collective, inspiring transformation, growth, and unwavering devotion. Those who have the privilege of serving her are the luckiest souls, drawn to her divine energy and the magnetic pull of her leadership.

Miss Donn is a passionate explorer of the human experience, particularly in the realms of kink, BDSM, and ethical non-monogamy. Having begun her personal journey in these areas in her teens, she has been an active participant in the public community for the past three years. She finds fulfillment in helping others connect more deeply with their minds and bodies through play, mental exercises, and thoughtful conversation.

Her love for BDSM is driven by a lifelong journey of self-discovery, managing chronic pain, and an appreciation for the sensuality of bondage and discipline, as well as the transformative nature of power exchange. Donn isn’t just a participant or a role; she serves as a mentor, a fellow learner, and a confidant, sharing her knowledge to help others uncover their own truths and lead more fulfilling lives in harmony with their minds and bodies.

Pro Switch Lady Raven Roulette, Mistress of The Sinful Sanctuary, welcomes you to a realm where desires meet their match and every sinner finds their place. Known for blending intensity with care, Raven specializes in exposure therapy, conscious consent, and a range of pleasures from therapeutic tantric practices to sensual sadomasochism. Her sessions promise "Fun-ish-ments"—punishments wrapped in pleasure—whether through impact play, bondage, or tickle therapy.

Strength is her art, with skills like hip thrusts up to 350 lbs, fireman carries, and body drags for those who crave physicality with their submission. Each encounter begins with a detailed negotiation of "Fuck Yes’s" and "Fuck No’s," ensuring safety and communication are at the core. Aftercare is a sacred part of Raven’s process, offering grounding, support, and a space to be fully seen. With her, safety isn’t just a rule—it’s the foundation for the deepest exploration of pleasure.

Let Lady Raven Roulette guide you through sadistic delights and tender moments, whether it’s through CBT, wax, trampling, or simply finding yourself between her thunderous thighs. Ready to meet your Divine Mommy?

Standing at 5'0" (without heels), Spunkii is a Pocket Domme who blends sharp, protocol-driven dominance with a playful, colorful edge. Known for her love of predicament bondage, chain suspension, and the intricate rituals of High Protocol, she brings a mix of mischief and mastery to every scene. Spunkii is deeply committed to the queer community and prioritizes respect and intentionality in all interactions, making her a selective partner in both sessions and play.

Her journey began in 2010 under the guidance of the late Sir Skip Dog, where she served as a part-time live-in submissive for nearly three years. His lessons in compassion, charisma, and the formal D/s lifestyle remain central to her approach, shaping her dedication to the values of respect and devotion.

Today, Spunkii’s style is a unique blend of meticulous structure, playful energy, and a sadistic touch. To those who meet her high standards, she offers the chance to explore the depths of her expertise. For the rest, approach with caution—or be swiftly dismissed.

As head DM for The Collective, I bring 25 years of experience as a Dominant, grounded in a commitment to safety and education. My neurodivergent and polyamorous perspectives enrich my understanding of dynamics, allowing me to create inclusive, supportive spaces where everyone can thrive.

I believe that informed consent and open communication are essential for healthy relationships. My approach emphasizes collaboration and mutual respect, creating a trusting environment where all parties feel empowered to express their needs and desires.

I also have a passion for ongoing education—both for myself and my partners— to ensure that we navigate our journeys with knowledge and confidence. 

As someone who thrives in diverse, multi-relationship contexts I celebrate the beauty of diverse connections and the unique insights they bring. Whether you’re new to the scene or looking to expand your knowledge I’m committed to fostering growth and exploration. No matter the context, I’m here to guide you through your journey with compassion and expertise. Together, we can create a safe and exciting space to discover what truly resonates with you.

Todd, our beloved house pet and one of the founding souls of The Collective, embodies the heart of service and devotion. With over 25 years of experience as a submissive, todd brings a rare, grounded energy that weaves love, dedication, and an unwavering commitment to our community. His journey is one of humility and strength, and he serves as both a guide and guardian, holding space for those who walk this path with him. For todd, submission is an art, a ritual, and a gift—one that he shares generously, inspiring those around him to embrace their own journeys with courage and compassion.

Kemo Burns is a leading figure in the rope bondage community, recognized for his mastery of rop and contemporary aerial arts. He seamlessly blends traditional techniques with modern performance art, making him a sought-after instructor and performer. Kemo’s acclaimed class "Freedom through Rope Bondage" at Art Clave highlights his depth of knowledge, guiding participants to explore the connections rope can create. As a performer, he showcases the beauty and emotional depth of rope through installations and live acts, turning each tie into a story. His reputation is further solidified by appearances at major events like Lighting in a Bottle, OC Pride, Folsom XL, where he shares the stage with other renowned artists.

Kemo is dedicated to fostering community through interactive experiences that deepen participants' appreciation of the art. With his innovative approach and commitment to teaching, Kemo Burns continues to shape the rope bondage scene.

Miss Trix is a seasoned learner with a flair for the refined and a passion for constant evolution. Though she's new to the scene and still “learning the ropes,” don’t be fooled—she’s anything but subservient, and you’ll soon find yourself longing to kneel at her feet. As the resident Domme-in-training at Kink Collective OC, Miss Trix blends curiosity with a commanding presence, always eager to sharpen her skills while maintaining her high standards.

To those who dare approach, know that Miss Trix values refinement, respect, and meaningful engagement. Friend requests from strangers rarely pique her interest, and explicit advances are met with nothing more than a smirk. If you seek her attention, you’ll need to stand out—show her why you deserve a moment of her time in a sea of mediocrity. For those worthy of the challenge, you’ll find her at Kink Collective OC events, waiting for you to join, pass the check, and earn the privilege of kneeling before her.

Dr. Grey is a Queer, BIPOC, Neurospicy, Sex positive, Decolonized Psychodynamic trauma and sex therapist. He is a Board Certified Sexologist through the American Board of Sexology.

Dr. Grey specializes in Sexual and Gender Minority (SGM) Mental Health, encompassing the diverse populations of LGBTQ+, BDSM & Kink, Ethical Non-Monogamy & Polyamorous relational structures, and sex workers/ adult content creators.

In his practice, Dr. Grey works with individuals, couples, throuples, and polycules, through their mental health concerns, sexuality, and relational difficulties as they navigate the everyday interactions.

Outside of therapy, Dr. Grey is a graduate professor, teaching future therapists to provide Affirmative Care for the SGM community.